Now I got the guys thinking and some cocky guys saying hell no I get her to cum all the time. Okay I have heard so many guys brag and say I did it so fast, she was moaning and came, she told me she came too and I saw so much wet stuff there. Huh? Is that your definition? Then I’m really really sorry she doesn’t want to hurt your ego. When a woman gets to have an Orgasm you will know if you are experienced, it is the dumbest thing to ask you girl “baby did you cum”? As her man you have to know when she did and how to get her there. Just because a girl is really wet don’t mean she just came, it means she is aroused and wants you, guys don’t think that you stick a finger or two for 15 seconds pinch her nipples for 9 seconds suck on her breast 6 seconds and the penetrate her will make her have an orgasm. That’s just being plain selfish and uncaring.
A woman’s orgasm is different from we guys who could afford to burst a nut just by watching porn, a woman’s orgasm has to be built up to the point she can’t take it no more and explodes with pleasure. For the nerds a lady’s orgasm is like charging a dead phone to the point its full. Now I know some guys reading will say what the hell is he feeling like.
Okay guys if your girl just had an orgasm she would not have the strength to stand up and dress up 15 seconds after you think she just came and say “I’m going home”.
When a woman gets and orgasm, her heart rate, blood pressure and breathing increase. Tension builds within her pelvis, muscles contract throughout her body especially in the vagina which is accompanied with series of contractions. Contractions also occur in the uterus, rectum and pelvic floor.
Occasional speaking in tongues you never heard,
Grabbing of your sheets, Toe curling up like she about to have mad cramps
Scratches on your back,
Love marks from her biting your arm because she doesn’t want to scream out loud.
She ends up having a good sleep afterwards.
Now the good guys who care about their woman are ready to ask me, hey how do we achieve all these? It’s simple son. Good communication in the bed room with your woman will help you a lot; don’t assume that screwing your finger in her or finger banging her here and there like you are searching for coins in her is fun to her. Ask her how she wants her body touched, ask her how hard she wants her nipples bitten and sucked, licked or pinched because its different strokes for different folks after all, ask her how to play with her clitoris and how she wants it licked, nibbled, eaten etc when you go down on her. Don’t just assume. A woman’s body differs from the long shaft in your boxers.
For all those guys that just skip foreplay and head to sex, I’m really sorry for you because when she comes in contact to the real deal, you would be an ex soon. 75 percent of women say they achieve orgasm via oral sex almost every time it is done well. Dudes don’t be selfish and expect her to give you a blow job when you not ready to down and eat the hell out of her pum pum and even when you do, you just go down and give it 5 licks and you are up. 5 licks!!!??? Come on son, spend some quality time down there and give her the best oral sex she ever had, occasionally look up and watch her flap her legs around like butterflies and see the gyration of her waste from so much pleasure, then when she gets an orgasm you can have a personal experience of what a vagina does when she has an orgasm because I am not going tell you that.
Also put a little swag in your sex life. Make it so nice she wants to be by your place tomorrow. Guys always have a romantic atmosphere, a good flow of natural lubrication so that the delicate female parts don’t get sore, and always never forget to stimulate her clitoris no matter what you doing. Please bear in mind and forget whatever you guys think or how big you think you packing. Sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman’s clitoris and nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.
So even if you are having sexual intercourse with your woman, reach out and stimulate her clitoris and your other should get busy on her breast or grabbing some of those her lovely curves. Don’t just ignore her body work with every part that is exposed.
Remember these:
Don’t be in a rush because it’s a turn on for women if they see you know what you are doing
Don’t be too demanding – Love making is not an Olympic event
Always ask her what she wants but please don’t bore her out with questions. Just shut up and drive
Give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you make an approach to her sexual area
Take things gently and see what she wants
Always remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm weather by mouth or stroking it with your finger. So guys pop in some Marvin Gaye set the mode right and stop starving your woman an Orgasm.
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