True Confession: My House Girl Is Tempting Me, What Should I Do????

True Confession A must Read: I will simply go straight to the point, as I would not want to give very explicit details about myself. This is for some obvious reasons. My wife is very sharp, I mean, she is such an intelligent woman and can easily trace this true confession to me. For the fact that I love her so much, I cannot let a thing fall in-between us. That is why I have kept this as top-secret till today; but I will have to let this out of the bag.

I’m not oblivious of the fact that most issues of this nature are blamed on the men whom most of us see as womanizers; but mine is a different thing entirely. I’m not a womanizer. I have tried everything possible to make sure that this girl-my house girl leaves my house, but my wife will always insist she stays.

I’m a pastor, but I also work as a civil servant. I would have loved to write further about where I live, but for the same reason why I can’t mention my name, I can’t tell you where I’m writing from.

This young lady was brought to my house by my wife sometimes in 2010, and had just completed her secondary education last year. She is supposed to pick up a form for her higher education because she is related to my wife; distant relation, sort of.

Frankly, she has been very good, and has been taking care of my only daughter since my wife put to bed late last year. Her presence is a big relief to me and wife because we are both very busy people. My wife works with a bank, and sometimes come home around 8-9pm.

Lately, this young girl has summoned courage to seduce me; to be sincere, she is tempting me.

I often return to the house ahead of my wife. Sometimes, because of hold-up and other issues, I will get in around 5-6pm. She started by running to embrace me with her transparent-short gown to welcome me each time I knock, on arrival. I was shocked the very day she did that. I felt so embarrassed. “Even if I had traveled to space…hun! This one is just too much… hun!” I soliloquized in my bedroom after she had dropped my office bag and ran out to get my food. This continued for 3 weeks. Sometimes, her boobs will just slip out of her ‘top’ and she will simply apologize. My wife has never met her on that gown as she wears another cloth when it’s almost time for my wife to return. I have developed double minds about her. I have had different evil thoughts since this whole thing started. The one that happened last was the way she sat facing me, with her legs wide opened. I left the food that I was eating and walked to the bathroom to do nothing in particular. I had thought she would adjust as soon as I returned, but she didn’t budge. I think I fell into her trap finally that day. I almost had it with her when I grabbed her, and she jumped at me. We started that regrettable romance before God intervened with the sharp cry of my baby. That was what saved the day.

The next day, I had told my wife that we should send her away, but she vehemently refused to accept my suggestion. She had asked me to give some reasons why we should send her away, and I had told her that she was getting so stubborn and lazy; hence, she is as good as no House-help.

My wife who claimed she had never experienced that had accused me of formulating things against the lady. She told me that I wanted her out of the house because I had seen that she will soon secure admission into the higher institution, and I will soon begin to pay for her school fees. I couldn’t tell her the truth, because something tells me it will be disastrous. I just felt I could handle the matter in the most professional way. But right now, things have gone out of hands since the past 2 weeks. I have done virtually everything that can be considered dirty with her except that I have not done it with her yet. What’s keeping me from doing it is my conscience and for the fact that I can’t do that in my matrimonial home.

That sin will be so grievous, I know. She had asked me repeatedly last week if she can meet me in any of the hotels around town this weekend since my wife will be around then. She has just Saturday and Sunday to take care of her hair and visit friends, and she wants to use that opportunity to have me all to herself. Now, I’m contemplating on this issue. All I need is your advice; Saturday is just 5 days from today, and I can’t make up my mind on what to do. I love my wife, but I think I’m becoming so foolish in the name of being faithful. Please, tell me; should I do it or not? It has gotten to the level where I cannot tell my wife the truth because she won’t even believe, since I had told her a different story before. She will see it as blackmail. Your reaction will either encourage me or discourage me, even though my mind beats faster, and something tells me to do it. Should I?

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True Story: Amaka Obi "My Back Side (Bum-Bum) Almost Landed Me in Trouble"

True Story: Amaka Obi "My Back Side (Bum-Bum) Almost Landed Me in Trouble": Amaka Obi is a beautiful woman endowed with physical attributes any man would die to have. True Story: Amaka Obi "My Back Side (Bum-Bum) Almost Landed Me in Trouble".

In this interview with Vanguard Reporters, She speaks about her childhood, s*xual harassment experiences in the industry as well as her foray into the mainstream acting.

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You have an awesome back, is it real?

Yes it is real oh!

Women in their bid to meet with the trends wear artificial bum these days and others go through the surgical knife to acquire it? Did you acquire yours through surgery or are you wearing something?

I didn’t go through any surgery, neither am I wearing any artificial bum or whatsoever. I grew up seeing myself like this.

How did people react to you?

If I can remember, I have always been chubby even during my primary/secondary school days. Well, l got so many reactions from people while growing up especially men! Some wanted to date me, others wanted me to be their pet daughters, others claimed they wanted to buy me ice cream and that l should be close to them. But one thing kept me safe and that was because l was very close to my mum and always confided in her on everything l was going through before taking any decision. My mum had told me when l was a younger girl that l would be pregnant if l was touched by any man. Perhaps that fear also kept me from trying on what these men wanted from me. I didn’t want to be pregnant.

How does having all these make you feel?

Well l feel blessed and honoured to be given these by the Almighty God, I owe to Him all the thanks. And as for the men, I am stingy about my looks. I do not share at all!

How was childhood like?

My childhood was rough and thinking about it sometimes makes me cry, although, it eventually turned out well. We were three girls in my home and l was the last child at that time until my mum got pregnant again for the fourth child. There was so much pressure from my father’s family on my mum because she had only female children and unfortunately for us, my father chose that time to die. My dad’s family seized everything from my mum and left her with nothing. My mum eventually gave birth to a boy but it wasn’t believed that my father was responsible for that pregnancy. So we moved out of Lagos to Port Harcourt. My siblings and I stopped schooling for more than a year. On several occasions, we were thrown out of school because we could not pay school fees. We opted to hawk all kinds of wares in order to make money. Every now and then, we changed school because we could not meet up the payment of our fees. This development went on until we relocated to Owerri. My mum all this time was doing menial jobs to take care of us. She became a washer woman and it became a family business. But the bottom line is that God somehow converted all the stress turned into glory. I lost my elder sister but we are better today. Mum managed to build our own place at Owerri with all the savings we made from the menial jobs, so we moved out from where we were squatting into our own home. Today, we are all stabilized, we are all grown, doing one thing or the other.

Are you saying you managed to complete your education?

Yes. God made a way and l read Marketing at Enugu State University (ESUT) though I was also doing business amidst classes.

How did you come into Nollywood?

My father wanted me to be a TV personality, but l wasn’t offered Mass Communication at school. However, after school, l got a job working at a car trackers company. I went through Amstel Box Office (AMB) three times, but didn’t go far in it. So, l met a guy who told me how to go about auditions. I went for it and l got the job.

What was the pay like on your first job?

My pay was okay, but l do not want to talk about it.

Have you ever been harassed on the job?

I haven’t been harassed at all. In fact, I have played a love -making scene before but l was wearing a bra. Acting is make- believe but it has to be real. I acted a love- making scene no doubt, but l wasn’t harassed. I think it is because l have not placed myself in a position to be harassed. I do not expose myself on the streets. I wear clothes that cover my body whenever l am out of my home! I do not go where l am not supposed to go . I am in one place at a time. The way you carry yourself matters when it comes to harassment. It is the way you dress you would be addressed.

What is the best part of your body?

I think the best part of my body is my face. It is my face because if my face is not appreciated by someone ,then it would be about lust because all he would be thinking would be about pulling my clothes to see my bum and all that.

Not yet

What are your future plans?

I want to settle down as in really settle down with a man who would love me and tolerate me forever, have my children. I do not want to experience a divorce in my life. As for business, l want to be able travel myself to get my weaves to Nigeria. I also wish to have a big movie production company to help would- be acts.

Source: Vanguard Nigeria

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