10 Things Girl Probably Doesn't Know About Guys

1. Guys are more emotional then they think, if they loved them truly.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep,they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

4. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

5. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

6. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

7. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

8. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying "come and listen to me."

9. No guy can handle all his problems on his own.He's just too stubborn to admit it.

10. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible♥

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How Do I Get Rid of a Bad Friend?

How Do I Get Rid of a Bad Friend:  My name is Seun I sent this story so that people can advise me on what to do and this is how my story goes. I am someone that loves to help people and I am also a very friendly person so I have a lot of friends but there is one particular one out of my friends that is very close to me. I help her a lot but despite all I do for her she is very ungrateful. She goes behind me to spoil my name and say all kind of things to people and even our friends. Things that are not true.

My family have called me times without number to warn me about her whenever she hurts me. But we get back and continue our friendship in no time. I love her so much. We have been friends for six years. Yesterday I met someone for the first time that was trying to start a relationship with me. Immediately I told him my real names he asked if I knew someone by my friend’s name and I said yes. Then he told me all he has heard about me and my family which were mostly lies.

I started crying and called her on the phone. She said she knows the guy but denied telling him anything about me or my family. I don’t believe her because this is not the first time this will happen. How do I live without such a friend. Please help.

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Q.U.E.S.T.I.O.N: Is Blow J Important In A Relationship

Q.U.E.S.T.I.O.N: Is Blow J Important In A Relationship: Please could you pose this question to your male readers. Is a BJ that important to them that they would refuse to be in a relationship with a lady who would not give it to them?

I think it is a disgusting act and I've vowed never to indulge in it and so in all the relationships I've been in I tell my boyfriends that I don't do BJs. They seem okay with it initially but after some time they start giving excuses not to be in a relationship with me anymore.

I didn't know what the problem was until my last boyfriend opened up to me and said he couldn't stay in a permanent relationship with a woman who would not give him head and said it was probably the same reason all my past relationships didn't work out.

Are all the women out there giving their men BJs? Am I alone in this? Would I ever find a man who doesn't care if he gets head from me or not?

So dear men, is it that important to you folks?

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Here Are The 10 Marriage Rules You Must Follow

Here Are The 10 Marriage Rules You Must Follow: Every married person knows to be faithful, stay truthful and be there for their partner through good times and bad–they’re in the wedding vows, after all.

But most seasoned couples would admit that some unspoken rules are vital for getting past rough patches and growing stronger as a couple. Here, experts share 10 of the less apparent (but just as important) marriage rules to live by.

1. Don’t criticize your partner’s parents or friends. You know how it is-your family can tick you off but no one else had dare speak ill of them. That’s why you should tread carefully with your in-laws and your husband’s dearest friends. Even when he’s venting to you, your contributions can put him on the defensive. When you take position A, you prompt your partner to take position B. Instead,, put yourself in his position so that you can empathize with him.

2. Tell your spouse about any ex encounters. Whether you get a Facebook friend request or run into an old flame at your , keeping the news to yourself could backfire, despite having zero feelings for the ex. If there’s nothing to hide, why hide it? That leads to an air of secrecy and dishonesty.

3. Keep unsolicited advice to yourself. Offer your support, lend your ear, but avoid speaking in an “I know what’s best” tone. We give advice because we’re trying to be helpful, but it’s seen as criticism when we offer too many corrections. This goes for everything from your husband’s outfit choices to how he deals with a work issue. Give your spouse space to make decisions and gain confidence through trial and error-and ask that he do the same for you. What matters in a relationship is not that things get done ‘right,’ but that two people are dedicated to contributing to each other’s happiness.”

4. Don’t take charge all the time. The spouse who does the rescuing can become tired of that role and resentful that everything is on her shoulders, even if she volunteered for that burden. Get in the habit of asking your partner, “What do you think works best here?” These requests will foster the idea that you’re teammates.

5. Don’t bring up past arguments. Or at least put a statute of limitations on them. People repeat ancient disagreements because they haven’t resolved the problem. Letting things fester often causes marriages to break down. It’s important to address issues as they happen and come to some sort of resolution–agreeing to disagree counts. Leave it there, and respect each other’s opinion.

6. Choose your battles, but don’t stifle your feelings. You have to be able to say, ‘this isn’t important.’” Or if it is, speak up. Tell your partner why it bothers you and that you’d like to work on a solution. You’d be surprised what you could learn about each other. It’s also important to understand that he’s not plotting to upset you every time he’s sloppy or forgetful.

7. Don’t post private thoughts or photos publicly. You may not want to be tagged in a politically charged rant he starts or he may not want you to share photos of the kids. And you each deserve the other person’s respect for those wishes. Discuss the ground rules regarding posting about yourself, as a couple and about the other person. And no matter what, don’t take your grievances with your husband to the masses for support. It’s destructive to air conflicts on Facebook.

8. Log off. When your attention is focused elsewhere, your spouse is bound to feel unimportant. So make quality time a top priority and restrict tech gadget use if necessary. Pay attention to the concept of ratio: How much time am I spending doing this compared to how much time I’m spending with my family?. Create a rule that works for your household and stick to it, whether it’s no devices at the dinner table, shutting down phones at 8 p.m. or going gadget-free on weekend afternoons.

9. Don’t use the “D” word (divorce, that is). Even in the heat of an argument, avoid threatening to pack your bags or head to the lawyer’s office. Besides the “D” word being downright hurtful, repeated warnings may result in a spouse calling the other’s bluff. We act as if the intensity of our anger gives us license to say or do anything. But threatening divorce is never useful, and it only makes the probability of separation more likely.

10. Be each other’s number one. In other words, be wary of outsider influence, like a friend putting relationship-threatening ideas in your head or work or hobbies competing for your attention. Happy couples have just as much conflict as those who divorce, but they know ways to get through it. A couple has to have a strong boundary around themselves and they can’t allow anybody to get in between.

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I Can't Stop Cheating On My Boyfriend

I Can't Stop Cheating On My Boyfriend: I had sex on the back seat of his car with a 25-year-old man last night. It was sheer madness – why do I do it? I’m going to lose my boyfriend at this rate.

I’m 36 and my boyfriend is 40. We go back years together as we had a relationship in our teens. I’m divorced 10 years after my husband cheated but my boyfriend has never married.

He moved away when he was in his early 20s and I thought I’d never see him again, but I ran into him in a bar in town when he was visiting his friends and it was like we’d never been apart.

We decided to start our relationship again but he still lives in another state and I only see him when he visits family near me or I travel to see him.

The relationship was casual at first so I’d see him when he was home and the rest of the time, I’d behave like a single girl. I meet guys on nights out and regularly have sex with strangers in their cars, at their homes or even in the loos.

I now have strong feelings for my boyfriend and I know the cheating has to stop but last night I was at it again with a guy who winked at me as I walked to the bar. He came up behind me and pinched my bottom and I fell for his ridiculous approach. We were having sex an hour later.

My family and friends think that my boyfriend is for keeps and that I should stop my antics. I know they’re right but it’s a habit that is just so hard to break.

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Top Secret Revealed: How To Win The Heart OF A Muslim Lady

1. 'Hi' You met her for the first time, hey! STOP don't stare at her with all your energy.
she will curl back if she discovers your intention at this stage give a welcoming smile.

An exchange of pleasantries is ok. {Don't ask for her number}

2. Get closer to her discussions with other colleague once a while, choose to support her view as much as you can.

3. Never involve your self in religious talks. Just tell her you fancy her religion.

4. Don't be in a rush to touch her.

5. Buy her gifts of what she can't resist, maybe pay her bills after purchase.

6. Make her laugh always...then touch just once her hair saying you admire them.
Don't do that often, then always give a reason to always help her out in an assignment or work..

7. Fit into her live style.

8. Disappear for a while, appear after a while not too soon and of course not too far.

9. If she says anything around ' I missed you' Repeat from No. 4.

10. Then ask her out, if she says no drop it and move on.
If she says yes then take it from there like you would with any other girl. She's Muslim, not an alien.

Submitted by Kola Ahmed

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